Social (General)
It's not you, it's me
Commonly used during breakups to soften the blow
Literal Meaning
The problem lies with myself rather than with you
Actual Meaning
Classic breakup line that usually means 'I just don't want this relationship anymore'
Examples in Context

Partner: 'It's not you, it's me.' (Translation: I'm ending this and trying to spare your feelings)

Helpful Tips
  • 1Accept it as an ending
  • 2Don't push for 'real' reasons
  • 3It's an attempt to be kind
Phrase Thesaurus
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it's not compatible
I'm not ready
this isn't working
I need to focus on myself
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